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It not as painful, but it still not pleasant. These plans involve pitching ideas before committing, repitching an idea to suit a market, testing the market for new ideas, reusing project material for the cheap jordans shoes next pitch and then pitching a lot.

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There are a stack of coping mechanisms all of cheap jordans china them have been useful to someone. There the sour grapes about the worthlessness of agents. There the claims of misunderstanding they didn get it, they didn even read it, world was never meant for one as beautiful as you and so on. If you still young enough to do it you can always stick up and stare at the old Samuel Beckett favourite from Worstward Ho (1982) of old. Nothingelse ever. Ever tried. Ever failed. No matter. Try again. Failagain. Fail better. (Although some Godot fans might prefer hang ourselves immediately. There the beefier end of coping if you inspired by Beatrice Dalle in 372 le matin (Betty Blue) stick a pencil intothe offending agent headthrough the eyeball.

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Is this list making practice part of the grieving process is it anger, or bargaining? Or is it perhaps perhaps just acceptance of a landscape that is rich in unpredictability, ignorance and unreplicable lucky breaks:

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